I am guessing that people with an aptitude for math ,such as top physicists and mathematicians, just breeze through calc 2. They don't study more than everyone else but rather it just clicks faster.
Yes, I think you’re right. As a mediocre mathematician, I don’t know of anyone in my good-but-not-top PhD program that struggled with computational math. This is the feeling that I got from their relaxed attitude towards TAing those classes. My classmates also had close to 4.0 gpas in undergrad.