who are you kidding - you pay 10 a month for spotify and dont own the songs, you rent movies on amazon and probably storage on dropbox and s3, computing power on google or ec2.
it's no different, except for you hate tesla and think it's different.
Actually, I self host nearly all media I consume. And I own the bits much more than anyone who is paying for streaming services, buying lossy MP3's, and letting control over their life be licensed away by corporations.
Ok fine, you are in the absolute minority of humans on planet earth, but i will concede that if you actually do that, my comment does not apply to you.