If it's discouragement you want to avoid, it's likely that it's discouragement y...

		magicroot75 on July 3, 2022 \| parent \| context \| favorite \| on: Ask HN: I’m 41 and still unmarried – what should I... If it's discouragement you want to avoid, it's likely that it's discouragement you need. You may need to accept that whatever ideal you're seeking doesn't exist. This discouragement may hurt at first, but it will open you up to a new world of possibility.

I don't think I need discouragement.