Thank you. I came here to make a similar comment. Anytime I see a "tour" I know the interface is going to be annoying to get used to.

Don Norman's "Design on Everyday Things" is a must-read for anyone working with UX/UI. Also https://jnd.org/affordances-and-design/

(Of course, these affordances change over time, so some of the conventions/examples are a bit dated, but the spirit remains)